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I heard the news on the Radio,
By Vladinator from the Scott department, Section Dead at 54 Posted on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 10:08:21 AM GMT

Vladinator & Reza's marriage died yesterday. There were no other details. It was only 5 years old. I'm going to be offline for a little while, folks.

To say that I'm devistated would be an understatement. So much for vows. I don't know if I can ever do this again.

In the meanwhile, I'll be looking for a place locally.

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I heard the news on the Radio, | 12 comments (12 topical, 0 hidden)

Hang in there... (5.00 / 1) (#12)
by NerdGirl on Sun Aug 14, 2005 at 07:39:47 PM GMT

haven't been logged in for a while, but thought I'd let you know you're all on my mind and my heart.

Who's dead now?

Update (none / 0) (#9)
by Vladinator on Wed Aug 10, 2005 at 09:49:52 AM GMT

Theresa wishes to express that I am a rotten shit, and that she is upset that there is no concern for her. In fairness to her, I am posting her point of view so that it can be known, as I have (of course) anonymized her account, and disabled her server access.

"It's clearly a budget. It's got a lot of numbers in it. - G.W. Bush"

As this story was posted by you (5.00 / 1) (#11)
by Beef on Wed Aug 10, 2005 at 08:00:36 PM GMT

I felt it was inappropriate to direct communications to Reza in it.

I am very concerned for Reza and for your child as well.

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Be conservative in what you do. Be liberal in what you accept from others.
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Of course there is concern for her.......... (5.00 / 1) (#10)
by xxxxxxxxxx on Wed Aug 10, 2005 at 10:31:47 AM GMT

but the bottom line is, the children come first, always!! Sorry, that is my take on things always, has been in my personal life so when I see others in a position of sadness I think about the kids first.

Adults know what they are doing, supposedly, children do not and don't always understand so I feel for them the most.

Truthfully, I feel for you both, hard not to, and it is sad anytime a marriage ends, no matter what the reasons. Been there and done that. It is never easy and it is never a happy thing. You just have to try and be mature and keep in mind that the kids need support and positive reinforcment at this time. Believe it or not, they absorb every bit of negative they see, hear and experience and will remember it. It is best if both of you stop the name calling and hate throwing and just deal with the matter at hand and try to be civilized. Your kids will suffer if you do not.

[ Parent ]

Sorry to hear this. (none / 0) (#8)
by vegetablespork on Wed Aug 10, 2005 at 04:44:32 AM GMT

Hoping for solace for you, that things are settled amicably between the two of you and that your little one is impacted as little as possible.

If you want to talk (none / 0) (#7)
by Beef on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 09:48:39 PM GMT

I believe you have my email address.

I am very sad to hear this.

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Be conservative in what you do. Be liberal in what you accept from others.

i'm terribly sorry to hear this (5.00 / 1) (#5)
by m0rk on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 07:46:23 PM GMT

not only is my concern for the both of you present, i feel for the little one, too.

any thing i/we can do, please don't hesitate to drop me an email, hunt me down on irc or what ever it takes.

all seriousness aside, please do let us know when we can feel free to crack some jokes!

I am with you on this......... (5.00 / 1) (#6)
by xxxxxxxxxx on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 07:56:13 PM GMT

it is the little ones I am concerned about here as well.

No matter how much bitterness comes between adults, it should never touch the children nor should it stop the equal participation of parents in the childs life. So many divorces cost children this and its very unfair to the child.

This is where being responsible and being mature steps in and lets 2 people put aside thier personal problems for the betterment of their kids. A child has a right to know and spend time with both parents.

This is very sad as it touches my family quite deeply at the moment, but I know with time all things can get better and time heals all wounds, doesn't take them away, just heals the grief. I wish this for everyone involved.

Hang in there Vlad, you know where we are.

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In all seriousness (5.00 / 1) (#4)
by Bold Marauder on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 03:56:35 PM GMT

I'm sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how rough it must be, but hang tough as best as you can.

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WHAT????? (none / 0) (#1)
by xxxxxxxxxx on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 10:32:09 AM GMT

Is this a joke? I don't believe it!!! Let me know what is going on, OK????

Where are you???

And, No (none / 0) (#3)
by Vladinator on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 10:46:38 AM GMT

this is not a joke. It's not even remotely funny.

"It's clearly a budget. It's got a lot of numbers in it. - G.W. Bush"
[ Parent ]

Call me (none / 0) (#2)
by Vladinator on Tue Aug 09, 2005 at 10:41:55 AM GMT

"It's clearly a budget. It's got a lot of numbers in it. - G.W. Bush"
[ Parent ]

I heard the news on the Radio, | 12 comments (12 topical, 0 hidden)

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